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Why won’t they take the advice – and change!

Published February 16, 2011 | By Reg

Why do people sometimes seem to be their own worst enemies?

They eat too much, drink too much, work too hard etc. despite advice and evidence that it is not good for them. Despite the trouble it causes. Despite the side effects. Despite, in some cases, even the threat of losing their liberty.

This is the subject of the latest Pegasus NLP Newsletter: http://www.nlp-now.co.uk/nlp_newsletter_current.htm

The answer? What they are doing is the best means they currently have of fulfilling important values i.e. of experiencing welcome feelings and avoiding unwelcome feelings. And as long as they don’t have better alternative routes to fulfillment of these values they are unlikely to change their behaviour – or, at best, to change it for very long.

Tagged behavior, change behaviour, negative behaviours, NLP, nlp newsletter, values

NLP & Goals (6): How to avoid inner values’ conflict

Published January 22, 2010 | By Reg

There are articles on Goals and Values on our main website

Goals and Values – your hot buttons (1) http://www.nlp-now.co.uk/nlp_and_values1.htm

Goals and Values – your hot buttons (2) http://www.nlp-now.co.uk/nlp_and_values2.htm

Goals or Dreams (1) http://www.nlp-now.co.uk/goals_or_dreams_1.htm

Goals or Dreams (2) http://www.nlp-now.co.uk/goals_achieve_them_2.htm

People who are going to have a great future http://www.nlp-now.co.uk/nlp_future_on_wheels.htm

NLP in Selling: http://www.nlp-now.co.uk/nlp_sales.htm

Using stress to motivate http://www.nlp-now.co.uk/nlp_live_your_dream.htm

Tagged goals, pegasus NLP, self fulfilling, values, values conflict, values hierarchy

NLP & Goals (5): your Values Hierarchy

Published January 14, 2010 | By Reg

There are articles on Goals and Values on our main website

Goals and Values – your hot buttons (1) http://www.nlp-now.co.uk/nlp_and_values1.htm

Goals and Values – your hot buttons (2) http://www.nlp-now.co.uk/nlp_and_values2.htm

Goals or Dreams (1) http://www.nlp-now.co.uk/goals_or_dreams_1.htm

Goals or Dreams (2) http://www.nlp-now.co.uk/goals_achieve_them_2.htm

People who are going to have a great future http://www.nlp-now.co.uk/nlp_future_on_wheels.htm

NLP in Selling: http://www.nlp-now.co.uk/nlp_sales.htm

Using stress to motivate http://www.nlp-now.co.uk/nlp_live_your_dream.htm

Tagged goals, hope, NLP, values, values hierarchy

NLP & Goals (4): what’s important to you

Published January 2, 2010 | By Reg

There are articles on Goals and Values on our main website

Goals and Values – your hot buttons (1) http://www.nlp-now.co.uk/nlp_and_values1.htm

Goals and Values – your hot buttons (2) http://www.nlp-now.co.uk/nlp_and_values2.htm

Goals or Dreams (1) http://www.nlp-now.co.uk/goals_or_dreams_1.htm

Goals or Dreams (2) http://www.nlp-now.co.uk/goals_achieve_them_2.htm

People who are going to have a great future http://www.nlp-now.co.uk/nlp_future_on_wheels.htm

NLP in Selling: http://www.nlp-now.co.uk/nlp_sales.htm

Using stress to motivate http://www.nlp-now.co.uk/nlp_live_your_dream.htm

Tagged action plans, dreams, goals, NLP, values