Comments on: NLP Bore (2): You mustn’t talk about problems! http://pegasusnlpblog.com/nlp-bore-2-do-not-talk-about-problems NLP for people who like to think for themselves! Thu, 09 Feb 2012 19:12:42 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: On a NLP journey http://pegasusnlpblog.com/nlp-bore-2-do-not-talk-about-problems/comment-page-1#comment-1003 On a NLP journey Fri, 02 Apr 2010 14:21:47 +0000 http://pegasusnlpblog.com/?p=449#comment-1003 I am so pleased I read this comment on the blog. It has really cleared something for me. Some years ago I worked with an NLP Practitioner who was also a friend. They created a state change without dealing the things that I was going through at the time. I now know I needed to file these first. This relationship broke down as every time a state change occurred it dissipated quickly, and then you have guessed it made me crave more. In the end this became too much for the practitioner involved. I am now working with someone new on my journey, amazingly different and after reading this blog I know why. I am predominantly visual/kinesthetic and this practitioner allows me to talk about my stuff first and file it, then we almost invisibly move to change work. She works with ethics and understanding and I don't get the craves, just a gentle journey into life !!! I have also practitioner myself and learnt an important although painful lesson about ethical use of NLP. I am so pleased I read this comment on the blog. It has really cleared something for me. Some years ago I worked with an NLP Practitioner who was also a friend. They created a state change without dealing the things that I was going through at the time. I now know I needed to file these first. This relationship broke down as every time a state change occurred it dissipated quickly, and then you have guessed it made me crave more. In the end this became too much for the practitioner involved. I am now working with someone new on my journey, amazingly different and after reading this blog I know why. I am predominantly visual/kinesthetic and this practitioner allows me to talk about my stuff first and file it, then we almost invisibly move to change work. She works with ethics and understanding and I don’t get the craves, just a gentle journey into life !!! I have also practitioner myself and learnt an important although painful lesson about ethical use of NLP.

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