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		<title>NLP &amp; Rapport – real or contrived?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Feb 2012 10:44:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Reg</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[body language]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Rapport &#8211; feeling at ease with someone Rapport is what we experience when we feel at ease with and trust one another. It is the result of our attitudes towards one another. In NLP we consider rapport to be an essential foundation for good communication because without rapport there may be a lot of talk [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Consultative Motivating</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Feb 2012 13:54:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Reg</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Motivating people their way Here at Pegasus NLP we have developed an approach to motivating people called Consultative Motivating.  It uses a number of elements of which two are fundamental: Motivate people their way: use their motivational style rather than yours – and discover this by chatting with them Motivate through consulting rather than lecturing. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>‘Customer service’ for non-paying customers?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Jan 2012 20:37:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Reg</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Customer service in a day-care centre In response to the previous article on the Pegasus NLP Blog about  good customer service paying dividends Karen from Demark asked if the same idea of excellent customer service applies with, in her case, people attending a public day-care institution. Who pays for it? I believe that whatever we [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Great customer service pays dividends</title>
		<link>http://pegasusnlpblog.com/thatcustomer-service-difference</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Jan 2012 21:09:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Reg</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[NLP in Everyday Life]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Can I have a replacement part, please Just over a month ago I contacted the manufacturers of my cycle roof rack to say that a part had broken when I was putting the roof rack on a different vehicle. &#8220;That&#8217;s fine – could you let me have your address?&#8221; I did and was then told [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Dealing with Difficult People (1)</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Jan 2012 18:59:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Reg</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[NLP in Everyday Life]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Last week&#8217;s Twitter Tips The new series of Twitter Tips began last week.  The total tips for the last series, which began in February 2011, was 100 and this year we’re aiming for about twice that.  The tips are posted on @pegasusnlp Monday to Friday.  And each week’s 5 is followed by a blog article [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Bathroom Tap and Anger</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Jan 2012 09:23:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Reg</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Taps, floods, and anger One of the analogies that I invented years ago and use extensively to explain unwelcome or ‘negative’ emotions is The Bathroom Tap. Let&#8217;s say that you share your house with a friend, friends, or family.  After your day&#8217;s work you arrive home, open the front door and discover water running down [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Anger ‘Habit’…?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Dec 2011 16:42:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Reg</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[NLP in Everyday Life]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[anger habit]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Neuro-Linguistic Programming]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[But is anger a habit? Looking at the visitor statistics for this blog, I noticed that this year&#8217;s most visited blog article so far is ‘How we do the Anger Habit.’ In the 8 months since it was published it has been viewed just under 1800 times. This is great and yet what I find [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Incessant Talker</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Oct 2011 07:04:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Reg</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[NLP in Everyday Life]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[hypnosis]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[The current Pegasus NLP Newsletter is about incessant talkers &#8211; the people who talk at us &#8211; and talk and talk and talk. Really skilled Incessant Talkers don&#8217;t just bore us, they actually affect our mood and our effectiveness &#8211; by scrambling our thinking. I had an experience of this not so long ago whilst [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Petty People and poor leaders</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Sep 2011 18:41:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Reg</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Petty People in the workplace The current Pegasus NLP Newsletter is about people who are nasty, spitful and gossipy. Who rule others through fear. Who cause dissention and undermine morale in organisations. And who play on the fact that the majority pf people want to be nice!  Whereas they want to play &#8216;enemies and allies&#8217;. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>&#8220;Be yourself&#8230;..&#8221; ??</title>
		<link>http://pegasusnlpblog.com/be-yourself-nlp</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Aug 2011 11:14:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Reg</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[NLP in Everyday Life]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[advice giving]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Self Consciousness ‘Habit’(*) Last week’s newsletter and blog article on Self Consciousness produced quite a few e-mails, including one from Bob (not his real name) who is in his mid-30’s, has had the self consciousness habit all of his life and finds that it’s getting in the way of his finding a life partner. [...]]]></description>
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